I am thrilled to share Amy Sullivan and her words of encouragement with you today. I accidentally came upon her blog months ago and loved her heart. Her blog says it all, “finding God-sized ways to give in the everyday.” Her desire for serving others and what she has to share today is raw and pure truth. I’m sure you can find yourself in her words below; I know I did. Thank you, sweet Amy, for sharing here today!
I used to think and rethink ways to live a life of love. I agonized over my self-absorbed life and poured over service opportunities.
Then, I sat.
I refused occasions to serve others. I’m busy. I don’t know them. I don’t have a heart for that. Not good.
Then, I tried to change, and I accepted every prospect to serve others. Sure, pile on something else. I want to know everyone. I have a heart for all. Equally, not good.
However, somewhere between doing nothing and doing everything, I’ve come to see true service begins when we quit doing these three things:
1. Quit serving with an idea of what service looks like.
I want to help, and I want to help in cool and dramatic ways.
I see the husband and wife traveling to Ethiopia to adopt another child, and I think what a way to serve, to literally take in orphans.
I read about the sweet family of five working at an orphanage for girls in Thailand, and I think what a way to serve, to rescue defenseless girls from the snares of sex trafficking.
Then, I picture myself doing quiet things, boring things, and I cop a teeny attitude. You want me to bring in a coat for the local shelter? Blah, boring.
The truth: True service comes when serving is no longer fun or exciting.
2. Quit treating life as an endless checklist.
I desire to accomplish, but my hurry-up-and-do-it-attitude often trumps the needs around me.
My schedule dictates my mood.
I multitask, but few things receive my full attention.
I drive quickly by the new neighbor, again.
The truth: True service comes when we take the time to notice the needs of those around us.
3. Quit trying to make a difference.
I want results, and a sense of significance.
It’s easy to invest in people or projects that are succeeding. Once, I volunteered with Big Brothers and Big Sisters. My little sister’s family was mean and unappreciative, and my little sister was demanding. I felt used, and often thought of myself as a free babysitter.
Why couldn’t these people just appreciate the fact that I was trying to spend quality time with their daughter?
The truth: True service comes when you don’t see results, but you do it because you know that’s what God is asking from you.
Question for you: Is there something you need to quit doing as you think of serving others?